Addressing the topic of abuse takes courage, so it’s important to recognise the bravery of those seeking help.
Supporting domestic abuse survivors, especially when they’re friends or family members can be difficult, yet offering emotional support is vital. Make sure to listen, believe their accounts, and give them the necessary time and space to work through their emotions.
Listening, believing, and signposting safely
When someone close to you shares their experiences, listen actively and don’t blame them. Reassure them that they are not alone and guide them to support services like Safe in Salford, where support workers can help them process the abuse and explore their options.
You can offer to accompany them to the GP or hospital, and support them in reporting the assault to the police if they feel comfortable doing so. Reassure them that they do not deserve the abuse, emphasising that the abuser is solely responsible for their actions.
Other ways to support someone
- Listen carefully and provide space for them to talk.
- Affirm their feelings and encourage open discussion
- Acknowledge their difficult situation and offer reassurance of available help
- Avoid judgment or directing their actions
- Support them as a friend, allowing them to express feelings and make decisions
- Remind them that no one deserves to be abused
- Encourage seeking specialized help from organisations like Safe in Salford or national helplines
- Respect their choice regarding leaving the relationship; don’t pressure them.
It’s crucial to recognise the courage it takes to open up about experiencing domestic abuse. creating spaces in which survivors and victims can talk openly about their experiences is vital.
By listening carefully, affirming their feelings, and encouraging open discussion, you can provide the support they need. Acknowledge their situation, offer reassurance, and avoid judgment. Support them as a friend, allowing them to express their feelings and make their own decisions. Respect their choice regarding leaving the relationship; don’t pressure them.
Want to know more? Read our page on supporting domestic abuse survivors here.
